OneWish, your back together if I remember correctly, I will go peek in a few. How did you handle the ups and downs, and comments of non-commitment from your wife. I will take any insight that I can find.
I was back with my W. You can read my previous threads to see what I went through. To succeed, I never too no for an answer. I kept trying and trying. Going Dark is the worst thing to do. You need to keep trying without pressuring. For my W, it all boiled down to her being afraid to try. She said that she didn't want to get my hopes up. She did miss me and it was hard on her to be the way she was. Once we got into counseling, she knew that she was wrong and needed to stay in this marriage. I am hoping to get her into counseling. She said that she will after I sign the docs. I haven't and don't plan on signing anything soon. I am dragging my feet. I have a life and I know that I'll be okay if things don't work out. I would give anything to get back with my W. I am just taking care of myself and keeping my sanity, so I really focus on GAL. My friends never even bring up W, nor do I.
To handle the ups and downs, I would exercise and just be around positive people who kept me going. I read A LOT. It gave me a lot of hope.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
