Sorry. \:\( I thought the same thing when she told me.

At this point in time I have no intentions of giving up on my marriage. I realize if he gets a D at some point I will be okay and go on with my life. I don't WANT to without him but that's something I can't control. I have several people that think he's not done and he will be back. May take some time but.. I can even think that sometimes. Then other times it feels completely hopeless.

I'm glad I found this site and can chat with people that are in the same sitch and know what it feels like. Helps to be able to vent or talk or whatever you need to do.


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07