Originally Posted By: sadhearted
You would think it would. Though sometimes I wonder. My SIL has been seperated for a little over a year and she says the pain doesn't go away but there are times that it's not present.


Didn't need to hear that.

Originally Posted By: sadhearted
Yeah I don't like not knowing if I'll have a husband next week or tomorrow or in a year. Sucks that it takes 2 to get married and 1 to say no not married anymore.


It is the not knowing and waiting that hurts, but I will do it for as long as my heart allows. I do realize that I can go on and be happy with my life if we get divorced. It just isn't what I want to happen. I know if I do all the non DB'ing stuff it will be over before I could blink, so I will continue in the best traditions of DB'ing that I can. If it works out between us, I will be a happy a** man, if it does not, it will sting and hurt for quit some time, but will live and enjoy the rest of my life. It comes down to the not knowing and waiting that I just really suck at mentally most of the time.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07