Thanks Cades,

I honestly though that I had gotten through all the pain months ago. In my mind I had already conceded what they were doing. I just don't think it sunk in until I made her admit to it over the phone.

And them being away for a week really has hit me more than I thought it would.

I think the lies have hurt me the most.

But like you said, it can't get any worse, and it does get easier with time.

Thanks again for your support, I really do appreciate it.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."