Call the police right now and make a report. Take pictures of that door. Document, document, document. Just bcause your W has never been violent with the kids before doesn't mean she won't turn her anger on them once you're not around. There may come a day when you need to fight for full custody and you could use this police report.
Also, if you file a report, odds are she will be mandated to go to anger management classes, and that could only benefit your kids.
Plus - if YOU don't file a report, she sounds just wacky enough to file a report herself and claim YOU did it!!!
Reality check, okay? A woman BREAKING DOWN A DOOR to argue with you is NOT normal behavior - something is seriously wrong with her. Protect yourself and your kids.
