Atlas is right. No matter what happens, the novelty will wear off quickly and your W is going to be the one that suffers. GD, once you start letting go and having fun with friends, you'll have an easier time to detach. Both of us have something good going for us...kids. Our W's know that we will always be in their lives several times a week. They will wake up one day and realize how stupid they are being. My W did this last summer. She thanked me for hanging in there. It takes patience and grit to go through this mess.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
