I wanted to post, needed to air. Not much is going on, I went to a comedy show with a good group of people last night. Really didn't feel natural without her there. I did my best and had a good time, but it sucks.
W dropped off the son this morning and had a list of todo's for the son. She said he needed a haircut and asked if I could do that and some new clothes. I took him out to a little kid haircut place, all I can say is that is amazing compared to the regular barber. Not a peep and he loved it. I got him some new clothes and shoes.
Odd part was that she showed up about 20 minutes early and asked if she could sit down and have a cup of coffee. We talked and she told me she was having a girls night out tonight, told her to have a good time. Other then that we pretty much relaxed and just talked. S was playing in his room, so if she wanted to start in on me I'm sure she would have. No mention of the D, or if she is still planning on it. She did mention that she is feeling emotionally better.
Not sure how to take it, the W will make decisions stick to them and slowly she will feel better about it, so i'm trying not to think that she is happy about her decision to leave and file for the D. I guess I just keep playing the DB'er and wait and see.
