Well, I finally just asked him last night on webcam if he had gotten my email. He said yes, but hadn't replied because he had gotten it last night (his last night) and I said that's ok, I was just wondering if you had gotten it. He said everything really is going to be ok, Baby. I said I know.

We talked a little bit about R stuff. Not necessarily our sitch, but R's in general. I told him that I really see R's in a different light now. So many people don't realize that it truly takes effort to keep things good in an M, especially once children come along, etc. He said "well like you said all along, there are going to be bumps in the road." I guess our D sitch & all that led up to it was just a "bump" to him. Bit of a HUGE BUMP to me, but that's ok.

I truly feel HAPPY today. Realized I've haven't felt like this in awhile. I guess I'm finally feeling like things really are going to be ok.

He is in Korea, and he got me a "spank your a$$ outfit" as he called it. It's a little silk pj outfit w/ a robe that has bamboo & tigers on it. It's really pretty. He told me that's all I have to wear while I'm over there on my visit \:\)

Honestly, those of you not in a good spot right now, I did not know for a long, long time that H and I would be where we are now. He was deadset on getting a D and said time & again that he didn't love me anymore. Keep your heads up and know that everything will work out in the end for the best. Thanks for everybody's support.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10