I just read your whole thread. I am sooo sorry to hear of your latest developments. It sounds like you are doing well though. I am not sure I would have been so put together like you. Whenever my H said to me We need to talk. That was the first thing that came to mind. I thought he was going to tell me that the OW was pregnant. That was my nightmare over and over.
What goes through these WAS's minds? They are completely clueless.
I am glad to hear that you are doing well. I will pray for you and your children. Hopefully, they will do ok through all of this. The only concern that I have would be them thinking that their mother left them and had another. I would probably opt not to see her. That is so bad for a child to think. But they do. My D8 (almost9)felt that way when my H left and there was not another baby involved. Kids at this age are so intuitive.
That is one thing that I have noticed.
Good luck to you and your Children. You will be in my prayers.
((((((Hugs)))))
Mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007
