would like some advice

[Yoyowife]

Goodness, I don't know what to tell you. My H has been so closed minded that I don't think anything or anyoneccould change his mind about our M. So I can't really say. You know they say that they get all defensive when you try to tell them things, but then there are parts of the book where it says that some showed their spouses and it opened their eyes.

I think if I had to pick parts for them to read it would be how divorce effects the whole family and also how you have to heal your own hurts, that finding someone new won't help. You know the part where it says if you remarry without fixing your individual problems then you have 4 unhappy people.

Sorry, I'm certainly no expert my sitch has not improved at all. I'm at the point where I've gone dark, galing, and looking out for my future and my DD's because of the D.

Take care, I didn't mean to ramble.

Yoyo