Light, You know what they say, there is a fine line between love and hate. I think most of us are definitely undestanding that saying more than we ever wanted to. I know I get so mad and hurt by H, but how do you turn off the feelings for your spouse of so many years. It will be 21 years of marriage for us this month and 25 years together in August. We are only human. We have a past with them. We have shared so many bonds with them. Unfortunately, it seems to be easy for them. My H served me with D papers two weeks ago after 8 mos. of separation. I'm so sorry for your hurt.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
