OF,

I have been aloof a bit but your interest rate comment is too funny! Searching for a loan right now and I would cry as well.

Hang in there. I felt the same way you do now. Just get it over. Then, after a while, you kind of forget about it. Like the other day would have been my ten year anniversary. Kind of sad, thought about her a few times during the day and that was that. Next month will be the anniversary of my D for a year. Woo! Not sure what I am going to do that day? But once it is over, it is a nice feeling to get that off your plate so to speak.

Al, I believe you are right. The money paid back would be considered an alimony payment but not the equity in the house. I do believe that he will be taxed on that though....not sure. Like OF said, check with an accountant!


CIAZ
M 7/97
S 5/05
D 8/06
Both 33 years old
No kids