I think you overanalyzed what the girl was thinking. Who knows, and who cares?
You're right, nomo. Thanks for slapping some sense back into me -- I obviously needed that!
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I think I would have called her. Short simple little thing to do, doesn't seem pressuring because you got a message that was for her, and you can do something nice for her. What would you have done if you acted like W was your (best?) friend?
Good point, and I think I will do that next time -- I just feel like the more detached I appear from W (in her eyes) while at the same time still doing things to help her, the better the chances are that she will become curious about me again. This stems from that belief that a WAS will not even consider seriously peeking over the castle walls until they believe that the LBS has completely detached and is moving on. However, I do think that this situation was one in which contacting her would've been okay because -- like you said -- I got a message that was for her. I'm happy with the fact that she likely will be told by the pharmacy girl that I called to let them know about the message I got (i.e. W will know that I was doing something nice for her without me TRYING to let her know it).
I'll do my best to quit overanalyzing everything so much -- it is commanding too much of my thinking right now.
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WB -- Just starting #3 in 5LL, so we're about in the same spot. Gotta love the insight!
