Homer MacDonald says to get a girlfriend. In his book, he pretty much says it every other sentence. I guess it worked out really well for you. Congrats.
Yeah it sure did. My wife had told me over and over again that I needed to find someone else and just move on with my life because we were over. So eventually I did, and she couldnt take it. She says she literally went insane knowing that I was with someone else. She says even though thats what she said, she never ever thought I would do it.
It was 9 days after I started talking to this new girl that she was back. About 3 days into it she started acting very weird, by day 6 or 7 she was going insane and day 9 (the day I finally met her in person) my wife was back.
Now the two of you get into serious marriage counseling, or you'll be back here before you know it. I'm not kidding, do it, and do it immediately. You want this to last, you need to get the skills to make it last.
In addition for you, please go to http://www.makingherhappy.com and learn about what you can do to better communicate and keep her interested for the rest of your lives.
Good luck man!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Now the two of you get into serious marriage counseling, or you'll be back here before you know it. I'm not kidding, do it, and do it immediately. You want this to last, you need to get the skills to make it last.
It's about time somebody said something realistic.
Congrats.... WOO-HOO!!!! I'm so glad to hear a good piece of news! I'm happy for you and your family.
But let us have a moment of silence for the blood sucking divorce attorney who just lost his commission and is now drowning his sorrows in some cheap brandy....... that is before we scream..... TOO BAD SUCKER!!!
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
Just as I asked her to, she started reading Divorce Busting last night. Then I will have her read The Divorce Remedy. She has already agreed to go to counseling, I have an appointment Tuesday with my counselor and during the appointment I am going to make an appointment for us to go together.
I must admit it has not been easy. Yes I am absolutely thrilled to death to have my wife and family back, but being able to trust her again is gonna be tough. She really had me convinced that she was not seeing someone else, I always had strong doubts.
I've gotta get off here because because we're all going to the zoo today DAMN its nice to have my life back
But be careful .... slow and easy. I haven't read all your thread and don't know the whole story, but be warned Piecing is a loooooooooooooong process too and has its own ups and downs. Read the sticky post in Piecing about Tips for Newcomers to Piecing, just to give you an idea.
But - well done, I'm glad it's working out
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
I said don't make me laugh. 
DAMN its nice to have my life back