I have to agree with DR on the comment side, be very careful about such comments because it reinforces her decision to leave and that you aren't worth it. Now if you had said what you really meant which was you understood how she got to feeling that way then that would be a bit different. So be very careful in what you say and the hidden meanings in it.
Now as for what to do, well everyone else pretty much answered that question. I strongly, strongly recommend you continue to work on those control issues. This is something you probably want to work on with your C a good bit. Because if you don't you'll continue to do little controlling things which your wife will see and think you haven't changed.
So now I am going to ask you a question, was all of this truly heartfelt or is it really just another very subtle way to control her and her reactions, emotions, etc.? Because if it's any of that she'll just think you are a manipulative jack-ss.
Last edited by catfan; 07/07/0703:21 AM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
