Oops! sorry 'bout that....maybe just take it slow and easy then.:)
Do what slow and easy
Dirty mind like mine should just go to sleep now. But when I read it, that was the first thing I thought of, hmmm, never mind, I don't want to figure out how long its been. At what point can I claim to be a virgin with kids???
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Well I am still nervous as you can get. Not sure still if it will be today or tomorrow when I see my wife. I think it is more that with her being out of town for a week she may come back and tell me that she is finished and wanting the divorce. Not that I believe she is just, worried in my own mind. Also still worried about how to be when I am first around her again, I am going to do my best to act as if everything is fine and let her decide how we interact. Best part is that I get to see my son for the first time in over a week, that will make everything else insignificant.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Best part is that I get to see my son for the first time in over a week, that will make everything else insignificant.
There you go, focus on that positive part. It's something you can look forward to and get excited about. Forget her and focus on your son and how great it'll be to see him and do father and son things.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
I think it is more that with her being out of town for a week she may come back and tell me that she is finished and wanting the divorce.
You will be fine. Stop worrying about what she 'may do' you are killing yourself mentally. What you fear, happens! You have your son and that is the most important thing. Allow your son to see a strong, happy daddy! Find something fun for you two to do so that when he sees your W, he will be happy and tell her about all of the fun that you two had. She can't help but admire that in you.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
Well maybe I should be worrying. I talked to her dad because I was getting newspapers for him, his mother died a month ago or so and the obituary notice was in the paper and I needed to know how many copies he wanted. Well that part went fine, then asked if he knew when she was coming back to town and found out it is tomorrow, once again no problem. Was about to get off the phone.
Then I asked the stupid question, "Do you think their is any chance in hell for her and I to work this out?"
His response, " I really don't think so, we just want you all to be happy in the long run."
Teach me to open mouth and insert foot.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
