Thanks for those kind words Ellie! I am really trying to do and be all those things. But having to suddenly put my life on hold while he "sows his wild oats" is maddening! My mantra to get through every day is "baby steps, baby steps..." Another question, I've already read and implemented DR, should I pick up DB too?
H was not injured in the accident. All damage was done to the undercarriage of the car when he ran into a small tree and the tow truck pulled it off. He was however drinking, failed the breath-a-lizer, but passed the field sobriety test, so the PD let him come home... no repercussions.