Okay folks, I have a stupid question I need help with. I have now gone the longest period of time of not seeing or hearing from my wife since we started dating. She comes back either sat or sun, so I assume I will see the wife in the next few days, not sure if it will be picking up or her dropping off son, or inviting me over for dinner, etc.... So my question is, how do I act. Do I act as if nothing is going on still, tell her I missed her, or what. I have done so well at not calling her I am scared to death about the next time I see her, I don't want to screw anything up.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Try to let her steer the conversation. If she had a great time then tell her you're glad ....if she had a rough time... sympathize. Just validate her. I wouldn't get into the.... I missed you thing. Just be happy go lucky you.... upbeat and positive. Give her something to ponder. You can say how much you missed the kids in front of her tho....
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
That I can do, I just don't want to do anything to screw it up. I really hope she spent a bit of time thinking while she has been out of town, but was probably having such a good time that I wasn't even an after thought. This waiting stuff sucks. But will be well worth it in the long run either way. I also don't want her giving me sympathy about my ribs, if she does I just know I will take it for more than it really is.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07