Thanks Cadesmom34,

You are right.

I really did think things were improving. I have been GALing, keeping fit etc etc. W has been more considerate and pleasant over the last few weeks. I suppose it was the calm before the storm.

I value nothing more than my family.

I hope I can have the strength to forgive and forget if things do change for the better, but at the moment I don't think I can. I am a little confused at this time.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."