Well, if you don't want to be done, I think the things she said about him would indicate there is still hope that she doesn't necessarily want to be w/ him. I would say don't say "if only," start trying to be that H she wanted "back then." I'm obviously not saying you are at fault here, I'm just saying if you still want to stick it out & try to work on getting her back, that could be a start. Showing her the man you can be, happy with yourself and confident about life, and I bet she'll choose that over some "OM."
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
