OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............Pt2

[andyv]

Husband, Just got a call from W, she admitted to everything re PA etc. She still maintains that it just started (but I suppose it doesn't really matter).

I was very calm on the phone and recommended that we do the divorce together, and look after each other in regards to DD, property etc. She was very happy with this.

She has given me her word that she will go 50/50 with everything, including custody. I came into the M with a beachside property, large superannuation fund, shares etc, and paid off all her debts. The thing that annoyed me was when she brought up that she was entitled to 70/30 (during her angry period).

I asked her was she happier with OM than she ever was with me, she said no, but she is happy with him? She also admitted that she did not find him attractive at first, but he was there for her when I wasn't.

These two revelations cut me like a knife. If only.......................

I feel pretty shattered at the moment.

But there is a relative calm over me, I suppose it is a sort of closure for me.

Anyway, I am going out tonight (DD is at my mums) and will be surrounded by good friends. I just have to keep living my life, and what will be will be.