Wow Xuesheng, you are the king of patience! I can only say that I never even considered a stalemate lasting this long. I too am living with my WAW, but it has only been 5 mo. since the bomb.

Have you tried other techniques? Experimented with things like, I don't know,...

...agreeing with your wife that you should move on and then going out without telling her with whom or where?

OR
...confidently telling her what a beautiful, exotic flower she is, and then walking away.

OR
...

In any case, you are an amazing person to stand for your marriage for so long.

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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