Wow Xuesheng, you are the king of patience! I can only say that I never even considered a stalemate lasting this long. I too am living with my WAW, but it has only been 5 mo. since the bomb.
Have you tried other techniques? Experimented with things like, I don't know,...
...agreeing with your wife that you should move on and then going out without telling her with whom or where?
OR ...confidently telling her what a beautiful, exotic flower she is, and then walking away.
OR ...
In any case, you are an amazing person to stand for your marriage for so long.
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread