Bit, I just happened to come back for a sec to see how people are doing. It is TOTALLY normal for the WAW to back off after coming close.

Dude my wife and I connected in our last meeting and I haven't heard from her in 4 weeks. Wanna talk about backing off?

Just relax a little. I do think you need to determine if she's worth it period, regardless of time into separation. If 7 months is your max, let her go. If she's worth more than that, give her a bit of space and then go talk to her.

I finally have another meeting with my wife scheduled for next Wednesday, so that'll make 3 meetings in over 3 months. Yeah, it's hard, but if that's what she needs, OK!

I think we'll get some traction on our direction in this next meeting.

Just be cool man, it'll all work out.

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...