Thats exactly what I am thinking. If she only told me, she would know that I would be helping her fast track the divorce etc. She knows my values and that would pretty much set her free, so why not just admit it to me.
Everything she has told me and has been honest about (OM etc) I have taken well, and have let her be. She knows that if she admits to the PA, I would not bring it up again.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
