I came home today same thing, she is on the phone, walks by me says sorry and goes into the other room to talk. I go upstairs to check out my new to me DB book, read a little and it already sounds good.

If you are doing the 180 should you not talk to her at all?
Or is it more to show her how well you are doing?

I would really like to show or tell her some of the good things I have read that make so much sence.

During supper I asked the kids what they wanted to do this weekend. Daughter #3 said the lake because daughter #2 didn't get to go last Saturday. My wife said she didnt really want me to take them cause she wouldnt see them then, I said she could come with. Then I said do you want me to do something w/them one day and you the next, she said she didn't know. Then she was leaving to go taning, I said why dont you wait till the lake. She said its relaxing.
I'm still packing up and going to the lake for the day weather she wants to come or not!
Fun in the Sun.


Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt