OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............Pt2

[andyv]

Had a pretty good several weeks, however sort of did a backslide yesterday.

W has gone interstate with OM (told everyone including me it was with her GF). She is gone for a week, and I am looking after DD.

I was in a hurry yesterday, and couldn't find an item of DD's that W had put away. I rang W and asked her, then I started the dreaded OM talks again. I sort of asked her to admit to me that the R has gone sexual etc etc etc, and if she told me that she would rid me once and for all, and that I would find "complete" closure and walk away.

Well rather than have the courage to tell me, she told me it was none of my business (which it probably isn't), the whole time she was denying everything about OM it sounded like she was "enjoying" the confrontation and I sensed by her voice that she was really happy.

She also brought up "You have ignored me for two weeks and now you want to discuss it?".

I don't really know what that meant.

I told her that I though that was what she wanted, her space. And she got a little confused and said "yes". She is the worst communicator on earth, hence my sitch and not knowing what she want's as she always holds it in and never reveals anything.

I have detached completely (other than the backslide) and have not brought up anything in several weeks.

I don't know why I did it. I think that maybe I am looking for a reason to walk away as well. I am very confused at this time with some anger mixed in.