Quickie comment: there's a big difference between giving her space/not standing in her way, and saying things like,

"You made the right decision to leave. Like you said, we both deserve to be happy "


I think that was a huge mistake, and I suggest that you never say anything like that again.

What you just said there, was, "I want a divorce too; i dont love you like that any more, good bye".

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle