This is a plain and simple "What are WE going to do for the Fourth" conversations. Notice the we. She's still acting like you are married.
This is going on in millions of households today. ;-)
Oh, and by the way. Every interaction is not a milestone in your upcoming reconciliation or impending divorce.
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She has asked me several times what I am doing tomorrow night, and I keep telling her I don't know, because I don't. I finally said we could go watch Fireworks as a family and then S6 could come home with me.
Question is a statement. What are you doing? = I want to do something with you on the Fourth. I'm bored and lonely living in an apartment all by myself.
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Then she said that she is sure that some friends of ours would be asking me over for a BBQ. She said that if they asked her, she wouldn't go. I asked why and she said because she is sure that the H of this couple isn't her friend anymore. I told her that wasn't true. She insisted that it was.
She was circling around this issue. She's REALLY saying, "I know you'll be invited to a BBQ. I probably won't be invited, but if I am, I won't go because someone doesn't like me anymore. Boo-hoo, poor me. No one likes me anymore. So..will you PLEASE, PLEASE, RESCUE me from being alone on July 4th?"
Wow for woman who has moved out of the house, she sure wants to invite herself (in a passive/aggressive way) to all the fun you are experiencing.
She's confused. And she's liking the new you. These interactions are a hell of lot better than when this started.
Then she said that she is sure that some friends of ours would be asking me over for a BBQ. She said that if they asked her, she wouldn't go. I asked why and she said because she is sure that the H of this couple isn't her friend anymore. I told her that wasn't true. She insisted that it was.
So..will you PLEASE, PLEASE, RESCUE me from being alone on July 4th?"
And, the correct response would be.. "I would like you to come along with me"
So after all this yesterday, CW called me while S15 and I were working this morning. A friend of hers called and invited her and S6 to come over and go to fireworks. At first that kind of irritated me, and then I decided that it was no big deal. At the time I had no idea when I would be done etc etc. That and the fact I was up at 5:30 this morning and was tired.
On the way home, I stopped by CW's house to drop a couple things off. CW was very talkative about this and that, no R stuff. I asked her for a pop, as it was 90 degrees and humid and S6 was showing me stuff. She brought me two???? She then asked me if I had any beer at home. I didn't and she offered to gve me some to have. That was one of the weirdest questions. Oh well.....Smiling and waving.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
She doesn't want grandmother arms and a pouch when she's out with Mr. Skinny Hotpants Guy.
And...from what I hear, anthropological studies have shown that out in the great American Heartland, the natives offer beer as some kind of a love offering. You know...Kris likes Swen, Kris gets Swen a beer -- look, I'm into cosmos and man-wiches, so don't ask me what these yahoos do out where you live.
When you get a chance take a look at my last few posts on newcommers. You won't beleive how my drama continues to escalate!!! I will read up on your thread and catch up.
Well, I am sort of down today. And I have no idea why. I think it has to do with the boys being gone. Anyway, I had a coupon for a massage place, so this evening, I am going to get my first real massage. I signed up for the hour long one, I figured I deserve it.
CW and I are going to an outdoor concert tomorrow. I am looking forward to it, there are some really good bands playing. I will be a stud as usual, and to quell any rumors to be started by Theo, I will NOT be wearing skinny dude hotpants, spandex or see thru clothes.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
