BM7,

I stopped acting all depressed around my wife. I stopped with the R talk. I stopped trying to explain myself and how I deserved another chance. Now, while my W still wants out, she is talking to me. We are getting along. She asked me out on a date for tonight. Of course I have to pay as she doesn't have any money. \:\) But as soon as I stopped harassing her about us, she has opened up to me. It is going to be hard for a little while, but if you DB effectively, it will get easier.Go do something you like. Take this as an opportunity to do something for you.