It could have, I think sometimes they almost need a kick to wake them up out of there fog!
Take a deep breath and just take it one day at a time!

Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda