I keep reading people advising to give our WAS space and I understand the need to do that especially at the biginning stages of the stich,but what if your So complained the space was more of the same behavior he did not want anymore? My H wants more attention & by now we dont live together anymore,but before I kicked him out I kept telling I was giving him space & he complained he did not want space. How does one show attention w/out pursuing and not living together anymore??
Everytime he comes by the house he notices something he acknowledges out loud that is different that I use to not do and am doing now (little stuff) like he opened the fridge and said "oh no w you keep the freezer full you it use to never be so full or the house is always so clean?I am not a sloppy person??? You must be having someone come over all the time now.
I guess I do feel more motivated to do things now whether its around the house or to do things w/ the girls. I even take the girls out afterwork during the wek to the bookstore & stuff. I guess H vegetating in front of the tv use to make me not want to do things either , I dont know....
