Is there any hope??? Please help...

[mkultra]

Of course it is not too late to regain her trust. I just think it will take time, action, evidence for her to see your true 180's. Letting go of control is a huuuuge thing. It is a personality trait that we have from such an early age. Your letter/ speech/ hug was so beautiful it made me cry. You said all the things I wish I could say and/ or hear. It sounds so similar to all the mistakes we have made. Now it is totally about control. My brother, a complete control freak, said if I was the one who walked out the door first , my H would be DBing, not me! How crazy is that he beat me to that door? You may need to be patient and that will be the hardest thing but it will help prove your aim is true.