Stew Has she seen a doctor? Would she? I know depression, some people dont know but I can tell you it is fixable.
My suggestion, and take it for what its worth, very gently and at the right moment, I would mention seeing a doctor about it to at least see what they say. "I am concerned about you, my thought would be to...I would hope you would do that for me if you saw me in a state that just wasnt the vibrant person I used to know etc, something like that that is caring but not pushy.
Again, take it for what its worth.
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Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.