Hey bambam...when I was working at the bank we could only use certain appraisers when determining the "market value" of the house for mortgages. I know that the appraisers we used would always come in a bit low so that the bank was protected. I had several instances where the person looking for a mortgage would bring in an appraisal they had obtained from a reputable appraiser that was much higher and we wouldn't use it.
I emailed W and told her that I would prefer to use a mutually agreed upon appraiser once I return home. We'll see how that goes...
M:32 W:26 Kids: None Cats: 2 Together: 9 years Married: May 2005 Bomb: September 2006 Sep: November 2006
Hey bambam...when I was working at the bank we could only use certain appraisers when determining the "market value" of the house for mortgages. I know that the appraisers we used would always come in a bit low so that the bank was protected. I had several instances where the person looking for a mortgage would bring in an appraisal they had obtained from a reputable appraiser that was much higher and we wouldn't use it.
Well, I can understand a bank's need to protect themselves, especially in today's fraudulant market. I've never had a bank ask me to keep it low. BUT, I also live in a small rural community and I'm sure things are a bit different.
I still think it is a good idea for you to have a say in which appraiser. If she doesn't agree, I would hire my own.
Hope your day is going well!
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
My sister and I were out at the store buying a birthday card for my mom. I suggested that we each pick the first card we see and just buy the one that makes the most sense (I know...not very sentimental - but a good way to save time). The one I grabbed was okay, but not great. The one my sister picked said "To a Special Mom" on the outside and had some nice words inside. We both agreed that this was the card to get. We were just about to go pay for the card when my sister noticed that the outside of the card didn't say "To a Special Mom" after all. Instead, it read "To a Special Man".
The thought of giving this card to our mom made us burst out laughing for the next 15 minutes. People in the store thought we were crazy.
M:32 W:26 Kids: None Cats: 2 Together: 9 years Married: May 2005 Bomb: September 2006 Sep: November 2006