Max, Sorry friend. I know that hurts. I don't know how long you've been doing this, but for me it's getting easier. OK, she wants to be just friends. I can do that. Maybe you can too. I don't NEED my W to NEED me. H@ll, I don't even NEED her to like me. I want her to, and I want her to love me, but I don't need it.
The tricky part for me is the inbetween, ambiguous stuff. But we can do that too.
A thought I had driving in this morning - she, your W, is going to C with you. She is talking to you. She is willing to be friends. That's pretty possitive, all in all. Patience. See what happens.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread