Mike, Thanks again.....I really cannot afford to pay her CS right now with my bonus as part of my weekly income. I can understand why she wants it factored in, my bonus is 50% of what she will make in a year. I hate this.......
Yesterday, I received a little feedback from my W's meeting on Tuesday with a couple from our church. I really am not to encouraged by what I heard. I was told that my W is just wanting someone to talk to, interesting so do I. I guess they described my W as a closed flower that does not know how to reopen and that it is up to me to show her how much I love her and get her to open up.... This advice seems to be anti-DBing....
I have decided that I am going to ask my W to go to the Colorado M intensive with me. This is what I am thinking of saying:"XXXX, I know that you feel there is not any hope for us and you do not have energy left in you to try. I respect your point of view and stance. For me I need to know that we have done everything that we could to try and save our M and Family. Art and Bob both have mentioned in the past about sending us to Colorado for a M intensive. I would like for us to give it a try. I figure it will either give us a push in the right direction or let us know that this is the end of M and it cannot be saved at this time." If she says no, I will just say "Ok, if you change your mind, the offer is still out there". The worst she can do is tell me No, we are already getting D.
Tonight after work I am bringing my girls camping again. My friend and his daughter are going with, it should be a blast.....
