We have to take control of our own lives. Easier said than done, but if we don't when does the pain end?
I guess the pain never ends completely. I think that this is worse than dealing with a death. At least if my H died, he wouldn't have chosen to leave me. It would have been God's way. At this point, I am having a hard time remembering all the good things about my H. He is not the kind of man that I want to be with and honestly, I don't see why OW wants to be with him, but we've definately established that she is desperate and crazy. As much as I can, I am looking forward to moving on with my life. I know this isn't what any of us ever expected, but it gives us a second chance to live a different, hopefully better life. We are older and wiser and no one can ever take away what we learned from this. As long as we can let go of the bitterness and trust again, we will have fulfilling lives. Our H's on the otherhand are in for a rough ride.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
