Dave-- It is expected that your kids will feel some effects--you handled it very well, and I am sure your D knows that you are there for her. That actually might make her want to spend some extra time with W, since D senses that she is where the problem may be. Just keep reminding her that it is not her fault (she won't believe you), and that she can talk and ask Qs any time, of either of you, or another adult in her life.
Good to hear that flesh-and-blood support came around! Much harder to let yourself get down when support is there for you.
