Sounds like you have some open communication with the W after the cell phone thing. I agree with Limbo that IC for you would be a good idea. If you wife if depressed you will need the right kind of support to help her through this. I have suffered from depression/anxiety/panic for years. DH was not at all supportive and this caused part of the alienation. He also mocked me when I was in IC. But I would def. encourage you both to seek IC until she is ready to go to MC. On a positive note and IC will probably encourage her to see an MC with you if they think it will help her state of mind. Depression is a very serious illness but many people have it, work through it and get it under control. She is very lucky to have you to support her through this.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
