Aren't you supposed to GAL with the spouse leaves?
If you do it ONLY when the S leaves, that kind of points to your PREFERRING to be without them. Depends on whether the motivation is fear of being alone, or a burst of new energy and exhuberance.
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Isn't this supposed to make them want you more?
Theoretically, but that ain't happening.
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Isn't this supposed to show them you can have fun without them?
What about having fun WITH them? Why hold back while you're together and let loose once you're apart? This helps confirm that being together was not a good fit.
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This 180 he made sure seems to be having the right affect on you.
