Gone Dancin's Dilemma, 2

[Nomopo]

I made it clear through both verbal word, written word, and action for the first 6 months (except for that couple month dark period in the middle) of the separation that I wanted to try to reconcile. [. . .] Also, the last time I brought up the R (May 20th), I said that if she ever changed her mind and decided she wanted to work it out, I would be ready and willing.

I forgot all this. Sorry. It's late.

Given this, do you think she would have any doubt at this time?

Probably not.

I guess you've got me leaning toward mentioning it to the inlaws next time I see them. However, if I do I will try to do so in a non-chalant manner (like it really isn't something I'm thinking about or dwelling on anymore, but it is an option that I would consider if the possibility ever arose).

I guess I'm not as worried she'll think you've given up, so I feel less strong about you talking to ILs. But, it's up to you. If you want to mention it, be as casual, non-chalant as possibloe. To me, an off the cuff remark doesn't seem likely to be damaging. FWIW.

BTW, do I just confuse you with these thinking out loud ideas more than help?

Nomo

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