guess my concern is I am worried your W will think you've given up and moved on. How certain do you feel that she knows you still would be there is she decided not to walk away?
I'm pretty sure. I mean, I made it clear through both verbal word, written word, and action for the first 6 months (except for that couple month dark period in the middle) of the separation that I wanted to try to reconcile. Now, during the last month to month and a half I've stopped all pursuing, but have stayed very friendly, helpful, accommodating, etc. Also, the last time I brought up the R (May 20th), I said that if she ever changed her mind and decided she wanted to work it out, I would be ready and willing.
Given this, do you think she would have any doubt at this time? I guess you've got me leaning toward mentioning it to the inlaws next time I see them. However, if I do I will try to do so in a non-chalant manner (like it really isn't something I'm thinking about or dwelling on anymore, but it is an option that I would consider if the possibility ever arose).
