Do you mean telling them about my desire to reconcile if W decides to?
I have been dressing a little differently, but it is kind of difficult because it is summertime. However, I do have a new cologne (Chrome) that I've been wearing for about 4 months now, and let me tell you -- I get more comments and compliments from women I barely know or don't know at all. One bank teller told me I smelled like The Abercrombie store in the mall (I figured that was a good thing). I even had a women ask me what it was so she could get some for her H for his b-day or their anniversary (can't remember which). I try to wear this about 50% of the time I see W, so she doesn't catch on that I'm wearing it intentionally. I'm sure she's noticed, but it is just one piece of the puzzle to getting her interested again.