Trip,

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like you said telling the family won't work.


Do you mean telling them about my desire to reconcile if W decides to?

I have been dressing a little differently, but it is kind of difficult because it is summertime. However, I do have a new cologne (Chrome) that I've been wearing for about 4 months now, and let me tell you -- I get more comments and compliments from women I barely know or don't know at all. One bank teller told me I smelled like The Abercrombie store in the mall (I figured that was a good thing). I even had a women ask me what it was so she could get some for her H for his b-day or their anniversary (can't remember which). I try to wear this about 50% of the time I see W, so she doesn't catch on that I'm wearing it intentionally. I'm sure she's noticed, but it is just one piece of the puzzle to getting her interested again.

GD


Me:29 XW:27
T: 10 M: 7 (2 kids)
Sep: 11/06/06 D'd: 12/07/07
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