I don't know the answer here either. I see your point though, and it might be a good idea. I'm really just torn hear, but I think waw1978 made a good point earlier today about what makes WAW's like herself interested, curious, etc. From her point I gleaned that less really is more, so I think I'll keep trying what I'm doing for a while longer and see what happens. I do think that my GALing and round about statement of detaching that was provided to MIL tonight will help plant the same kind of seed of doubt in W that the sitch with her friend potentially did the other night (I also told MIL that the dancing was my new favorite hobby -- which is true). Do you agree or not?