I haven't been to a C ever during this whole ordeal although I did make damn sure my kids got in to see one when we separated. I seem to get alot more from this board than any C could provide. I think I would be going crazy but for the fact that I gave up on her some time ago.
TwinDragon,
My W is currently supporting the OM in this case but it sure wouldn't surprise me if they ended up milking the system in the future. My sitch is just a little different than yours in the fact that I have sole custody of my kids, I am so happy I fought for that now. The kids are a little excited about this but I am definatly not looking forward to the future. I see some bizarre sort of blending going on with her wanting the kids to spend time together. This doesn't work for me, you see she has supervised visitation so I'll end up having to put up with this other kid in one way or another.
My GF called awhile ago and I let her know W was pregnant, she jumped in her car and came over right away. I could see she was nervous and after some talk she asked if the baby was mine. I LOL at that and assured her it was definatly not mine. I told her I wasn't having sex with my W and that I wouldn't do that to her. She was very relieved because she thought perhaps W and I were getting back together.
Funny how we think after we've been around the block a couple of times.
