I don't know how the W feels about tattoos. It’s not like it is going to show all the time it will just be on my shoulder but.... Do you think she may think I went off the deep end and am now crazy?
And WHY do your care what your wife thinks? She's been busy having sex with her ex-BF and causing you endless agony. In a normal situation, you might consider what your wife thinks. In the current circumstances, you are roomates. Do you care what your roomate thinks? This is about you. YOu need to assert yourself LOUDLY.
The real question is, "What do YOU think about a getting tattoo?"
Why do you want one? To be cool? Make a statement? Show your wife you are GAL? Get the tattoo for you.
In my opinion, I think you should do some more GAL activities and find yourself before you brand yourself with a symbol that doesn't mean too much to you. Make sense? It's permanent dude.
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Even though it is a different sitch how would you feel if you’re H got a tattoo?
If my husband got a tattoo, I would get so mad, I'd put on a full-body Spandex track suit and run away to Montana.
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When I can get the money together I most likely will get it anyway but I am just wondering.
The money issue came up twice in your posts. I say this humbly, but I think you might want to attend your career/finance issues before you worry about getting a tattoo. This tells me a lot more about the task ahead of you than the other things you are telling me. Email me so I can go into depth about this with you.
