You sound like you are working over load trying to make sure everything is perfect and waiting to make a funny comment. I am sure you W sees that you are trying really hard. The harder they see us try, the more they sense pressure. The best way to handle it is as a preference. Try a 180 and ignore her and see how that works. Showering her with attention is not working. Next time you exchange the kids, be all dressed up like you are going out and leave in a hurry. Keep looking at your watch. You need to ger her curiosity button activated. Be brief. Say it has been great, I need to go now. Good night. Leave in a happy mood and see how she responds.
GD has been dark for a while. He has limited contact with his wife, so he is focused on making the most of the very limited contact/opportunities he does have. Also, I wouldn't say he has been showering her with attention. Only recently has he contemplated gaoing beyond dark to send subtle messages in her primary LL.
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
