That is amazing. It is like people "Come Out" of the closet, not in a sexual way, but in search of some kind of freedom. I have also seen people lose their minds on these journeys from a separation. Maybe he is just rallying the troops, which the book says we are not supposed to do. Therefore it sucks when only one person in the relationship has read the book. Why can't we put all of that energy into our marriages instead of our separations? My H and I are working on making our lives better for ourselves but apart not together. It is the most frustrating thing. All the things he never did for me, he does now without me, like going hiking, seeing films, watching concerts. Babies, expenses, work, and excuses kept us from going out together but now it is some kind of priority now thart we are so lonely. So stupid.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."