SDFoundGirl,

I DB'd and saved my marriage last summer. I Started to experience the same symptoms that you are experiencing. I worked my tail off to change my life. I fought so hard. My W didn't do anything. She just accepted a great guy with new changes. She didn't work on any of her issues (insecurities, anger, breaking things, bringing up the past, threating D after we reconcile etc.). I had so much resentment because my W was always complaining and bringing up the past. I finally left for a week and my W said she was done. It was almost like she was trying to sabotage our M. Now she filed and I don't know what to do. I would appreciate if you or Jen_Jam could offer me some advice.

OneWish


OneWish's Story


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