Affair still strong

[mkultra]

Hi Gracey, I am a lurker from the We're Separated. I hoped I would not be in this section, but something about your story drew me in here. You see, my neighbours and good friends went through a similiar sitch two Christmases ago. They had tried for many years to have kids, finally they were blessed with twin girls, healthy and gorgeous. They were the pride of the neighborhood. One looked like mommy, the other daddy. You can imagine how shocked I was to find out the day after their Christmas party that she had kicked him out because he refused to leave his OW. Her twins were also 18 months then. She had such a difficult pregnancy, completely bedridden for months. He seemed like such a proud father. His OW was an unattractive person inside and out with kids of her own, but she did not have expectations of him. She was very tacky, kind of trashy. Now it is later and the girls rarely see their dad and mom moved out of state. She has moved on without a sign of bitterness. The thing is my H started to hate that man for what he did and now I think I see him doing the same thing. My H has pretty much left his own kids to be with someone else's. Amazing. Sorry so long. I tried to PM you but could not.